{"id":1382,"date":"2012-10-06T04:27:23","date_gmt":"2012-10-06T04:27:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=1382"},"modified":"2012-10-08T20:37:04","modified_gmt":"2012-10-08T20:37:04","slug":"handling-lifes-problems-with-sweet-subtlety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=1382","title":{"rendered":"Handling life&#8217;s problems<br> with sweet subtlety"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have come across a wonderful book that is ten years old, but whose subject\u2014and treatment of it\u2014is as fresh as this morning\u2019s first breeze.<\/p>\n<p><em>Awake Mind, Open Heart<\/em>, by Cynthia Kneen, is a review of the basic points of Buddhist and Shambhala teachings and philosophy, offering a remarkably insightful explanation and right-there-in-front-of-your-face usage of a structure of reasoning called <em>threefold logic.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This analytical tool, as Cynthia tells us, can be extremely powerful in approaching everyday problems, challenges, and circumstances. It can, as the book\u2019s Introduction declares, \u201chelp you in conducting your work, talking to your kids, thinking through what\u2019s puzzling you, negotiating with your car mechanic, or anything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Within the text itself this logic form is utilized to explore a wide range of topics, including how to \u201csettle down\u201d with yourself, how to summon courage for your daily encounter with life, discovering greater wisdom, attaining dignity, seeing the world as friend, and what being a genuine leader is all about.<\/p>\n<p>I was particularly struck by a chapter titled <em>A Joyful and Sad Heart<\/em>, which, as it turns out, makes virtually the same point that is found in my own book, <em>Happier Than God\u2014<\/em>that \u201chappiness and sadness are not mutually exclusive.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The chapter describes \u201cthe unique experience of joy and sadness combined\u201d\u2014out of which arises \u201ca pragmatic tenderness to appreciate and be sympathetic to your situation,\u201d and to be \u201cthe basic goodness\u201d in the particular situation that you are now facing&#8230;whatever it might be. It is sort of an Eastern version of Byron Katie&#8217;s central idea of &#8220;loving what is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>By means of illustration, the author tells of the word \u201chello,\u201d and how it also means \u201cgoodbye.\u201d Because everything is impermanent and nothing lasts, the author says we should really say \u201cgoodbye\u201d when first shaking hands with someone. In this we see and feel both joy and sadness in the same moment. \u201cHello\/goodbye, and I hope Hello again\u201d is what might actually be said upon meeting someone, the book suggests. This is just one of many, many sweetly subtle treatments of life\u2019s complexities.<\/p>\n<p>Cynthia Kneen (pronounced \u201cneen\u201d) is a senior student of Chogyam Trungpa who has taught meditation programs for more than 25 years. She is also a practicing management consultant who lives in Boulder, Colorado. Her book, published in 2002, is a testament to the power of courage and dignity in everyday life, and as exciting a read today as I&#8217;m sure it was ten years ago when first released.<\/p>\n<p>Highly recommended for its soft, gentle, almost sneak-up-on-you approach to some of life\u2019s most challenging moments.<\/p>\n<p>From Marlow &amp; Company, ISBN 1-56924-551-7<\/p>\n<p><em>(If there is a book, movie, music CD, etc. that you would like to recommend to our worldwide audience, please submit it to our Managing Editor, Lisa McCormack, for possible publication in this space. Not all submissions can be published, due to the number of submissions and sometimes because of other content considerations, but all are encouraged. 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