{"id":2951,"date":"2012-12-06T17:02:54","date_gmt":"2012-12-06T22:02:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=2951"},"modified":"2012-12-06T17:02:54","modified_gmt":"2012-12-06T22:02:54","slug":"how-can-i-manifest-a-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=2951","title":{"rendered":"How Can I Manifest a Baby?"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for over a year now, and I feel like we have tried literally everything, even IVF \u2013 needless to say nothing has worked.\u00a0 I\u2019m at my wits end with this process.\u00a0 I want a child so badly, yet I can\u2019t continue this cycle of disappointment, it\u2019s making me miserable and is even beginning to affect my relationship with my husband.\u00a0 Medically, chances of us conceiving are very low, but not impossible.\u00a0 However, I am one who believes that anything is possible and I don\u2019t want to give into the odds!\u00a0 But what can I do?\u00a0 Where is my baby?\u00a0 Feeling very desperate at this point, don\u2019t know if you can help but I follow CWG books closely and thought I\u2019d give it a try.<\/em><\/p>\n

~ Jeannie, Arkansas<\/em><\/p>\n

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Jeannie my heart just aches for you.\u00a0 I feel the pain in your words, and your frustration is palpable.\u00a0 I so admire your strength, courage and perseverance, it speaks volumes to who you are as a person.\u00a0 I wish I could wave my magic wand and make it happen for you.<\/p>\n

But since I can\u2019t, I will offer you my intuition on your situation.\u00a0 When we want something so badly in life that it consumes all of our attention and creates a boatload of negative feelings in us, the resistance that we feel around the whole subject actually begins pushing it away from us further.\u00a0 Conversations with God describes the using of the words, \u201cI want\u201d as a declaration of lack, of the thing you want not being there right now, and the Universe responds to this and gives you more of the experience of wanting.\u00a0 To take that even deeper, it isn\u2019t the actual words \u201cI want\u201d that produce more of the wanting, it\u2019s the vibration you are offering when you speak them (or, the Sponsoring Thought \u2013 the thought behind the thought).\u00a0 For example, when a child sees a commercial about a cool new toy and exclaims in excitement, \u201cI want that!\u201d, he isn\u2019t coming from a place of lack, he is coming from a place of desire and joy at the thought of having that toy.\u00a0 But when a person living paycheck to paycheck declares in frustration, \u201cI just want more money!\u201d, they are all too aware and consumed by their lack of money.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m describing the above to you, Jeannie, for two reasons: 1) You\u2019ve created a lot of resistance (quite understandably, I might add) around becoming pregnant and 2) you\u2019re speaking and thinking about it from the vibration of lack.\u00a0 I know that may sound harsh, and I assure you that I am not implying that you caused any of these \u201cproblems\u201d in the first place, I am simply pointing out how you can approach this energetically and spiritually, as I too, am a believer that anything is possible.\u00a0 So, then, let\u2019s look at what you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Declare your intention from a place of desire.\u00a0 In other words, what can you say about this that actually feels good to say?\u00a0 An example might be, \u201cI look forward with joy and gratitude to the day when we conceive.\u201d\u00a0 Do you enjoy praying or communicating with your guides\/angels?\u00a0 Then by all means pray for it, but offer up a prayer of gratitude.\u00a0 The gratitude acknowledges that it is already there, or is at least on its way.\u00a0 One of my favorite prayers of gratitude from CWG is \u201cthank you, God, for helping me to understand that this problem has already been solved for me.\u201d\u00a0 See how much better that feels?<\/p>\n

Next, back off from it.\u00a0 Move from this state of resistance to a state of allowing.\u00a0 You see, our only job here is to be clear on what we want and decide that it\u2019s coming, and you only need to do this once – it\u2019s the Universe\u2019s job to figure out \u201cthe how\u201d.\u00a0 It doesn\u2019t mean stop trying to have a baby, it means let go of the resistance around it, and take action from a good-feeling place.\u00a0 So what might that look like?\u00a0 It could look like diving into a fun project, getting artistic and creating something, practicing daily gratitude, taking up a hobby and inviting more fun and lightness into your life.\u00a0 It could look like going out on dates with your husband and appreciating the free time the two of you have right now, making love simply to express how you feel for one another.<\/p>\n

In short, you know you are in a state of allowing when you feel good, you feel light.\u00a0 Let it go for now.\u00a0 Let the Universe do its job and give yourself a break.\u00a0 Your faith and belief are so strong, Jeannie, I can feel that about you.\u00a0 Backing off and giving yourself permission to feel good about life is your way of exercising that faith, and wonderful things come of it.<\/p>\n

Sending you lots of love throughout this process,<\/p>\n

Nova<\/p>\n

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(Nova Wightman is a CWG Life Coach, as well as the owner and operator of Go Within Life Coaching, www.gowithincoaching.com<\/a>, specializing in helping individuals blend their spirituality with their humanity in a way that makes life more enjoyable, easy, and fulfilling.\u00a0 She can be reached at Nova@theglobalconversation.com. )<\/em><\/p>\n

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My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for over a year now, and I feel like we have tried literally everything, even IVF \u2013 needless to say nothing has worked.\u00a0 I\u2019m at my wits end with this process.\u00a0 I want a child so badly, yet I can\u2019t continue this cycle of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[171],"tags":[682,436,683,681,685,684],"class_list":["post-2951","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advice","tag-allowing","tag-gratitude","tag-lack","tag-resistance","tag-sponsoring-thought","tag-vibration"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2951","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2951"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2951\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2953,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2951\/revisions\/2953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2951"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2951"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2951"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}