{"id":3123,"date":"2012-12-14T17:04:32","date_gmt":"2012-12-14T22:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=3123"},"modified":"2012-12-14T17:52:36","modified_gmt":"2012-12-14T22:52:36","slug":"the-timing-and-the-circumstances-of-death-are-always-perfect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=3123","title":{"rendered":"The timing and the circumstances of death are always perfect"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>NEALE: This idea of using death as a <em>tool<\/em> is brand new to me. A tool is something that one uses on purpose, it seems to me. It\u2019s something that one wants to use. But I don\u2019t <em>want <\/em>to die. Nobody wants to die.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Everybody wants to die.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE:<em> Everybody wants to die?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>GOD: Of course, or nobody would. Do you think that dying is something that occurs against your will?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: It sure seems that way to plenty of people.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Nothing occurs against your will. That is impossible. So here is\u2026<em>The Third Remembrance: <\/em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">You cannot die against your will.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: That is so comforting. That is so wonderfully healing for me to know. Yet how can I embrace this as my truth if it is my experience that <em>lots <\/em>of things happen that I do not want to have happen?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Nothing happens that you do not want to have happen.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE:<em> Nothing?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Nothing.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">You can IMAGINE that things happen that you do not want to have happen, but this is not what is so, and merely allows you to think of yourself as a victim.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Nothing holds you back in your evolution more than this single thought. The idea of victimization is a certain sign of limited perception. True victimization cannot exist.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE:<em> <\/em>It\u2019s pretty darn hard to tell someone whose daughter has been raped, or whose entire village has been wiped out in a vicious act of \u201cethnic cleansing,\u201d that no one has been victimized.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: It would be non-beneficial to speak in this way to people while they are in the midst of their suffering. During those moments simply be with them with deep compassion, true caring, and healing love. Do not offer spiritual platitudes or intellectual excursions as a remedy for their pain. Heal the pain first, then heal the thought that created the pain.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Of course it is true that, in the ordinary human sense, there are those who have been the \u201cvictim\u201d of terrible occurrences and circumstances in life. Yet this experience of victimization can only be real within the context of normal\u2014and therefore extremely limited\u2014human awareness.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">When I say that true victimization does not exist, I am speaking from an entirely different level of awareness. Yet this is a level of awareness that human beings can achieve, once their pain has been healed.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE:<em> <\/em>Thank you, dear God, for such clarity and such wisdom. Yet your statement that true victimization cannot exist will, I know, still be difficult for many people to embrace, whether they are in emotional pain or not.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Yet what I am saying here is nothing more than what nearly all of the world\u2019s traditional religions have said for many centuries. \u201cMysterious are the ways of the Lord,\u201d they have proclaimed.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">===========\u00a0\u00a0 Excerpt # 2&#8230;<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0 ==========<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: You will choose to \u201cdie\u201d when your life on earth is complete. Your life on earth will be complete when you have experienced <em>all<\/em> that you came here to experience.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: Or when I realize that I have not experienced all of it and that there is no other way to experience all of it along the path I have taken.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: No. Emphatically, no. That cannot happen. No one dies having failed to experience all that they came to the physical world to experience.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: What?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: I said that <em>no one dies having failed to experience all that they came to the physical world to experience.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">There is no such thing as being \u201cincomplete\u201d. That is what is meant by\u2026<em>The Eleventh Remembrance:<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The timing and the circumstances of death are always perfect.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: I believe that. But how does the parent of a child who has been raped, mutilated and murdered call the circumstances of such a death \u201cperfect\u201d? How do people who saw their loved one perish on 9\/11 accept such a death as \u201cperfect\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>You are asking an awful lot here. This is stretching credibility of most people to the absolute limit.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: I have already said that the elegance of life\u2019s design is like that of a snowflake. It seems almost too perfect to be believed, too good to be true. Yet I tell you this: Comfort for the bereaved will be found in the sure knowledge of the certain perfection of God.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">God is perfect, always and eternally. Now there is only one thing left for you to understand: who and what \u201cGod\u201d is.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">I have told you over and over again in our conversations, and I will tell you here and now, once more, and finally:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>GOD and LIFE are one and the same. <\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Therefore when I say that \u201cGod is perfect,\u201d I am saying that <em>Life is perfect. <\/em>And it is. The \u201csystem\u201d rests in perfect balance with itself.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">All things happen in their perfect timing and in their perfect way. It is not always possible to see this, to perceive this, from the extremely narrow perspective of human experience. That is a limitation of the physical world. It is a limitation that can, however, be overcome.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Many \u201cprophets\u201d and \u201csages\u201d have overcome this limitation of perception by choosing a different perspective, by looking at life a new way. Alas, their messages are often ignored. Their insights are frequently belittled. Often, they themselves are condemned. And so the blind continue to lead the blind, because you will not listen to those who can see.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Therefore, let those who have ears to hear, listen:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>Imperfection is impossible in the Kingdom of God.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: Yes, but what about here on earth?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: \u201cHere on earth\u201d IS the Kingdom of God. There is no place that exists that is not<em> <\/em>part of that kingdom.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: You see, we have this all \u201cseparated out\u201d here on earth. We\u2019ve got it that life on earth is the trial and the tribulation <em>enabling us to get INTO <\/em>the Kingdom of God. And it\u2019s our idea that death is the way we get in.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: There is no way to get into the Kingdom of God. It is not a place you get into or out of. It is a place where you always ARE. It is the only place that you can ever be.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: It sure doesn\u2019t seem that way sometimes.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: That is because you do not remember who you are, and you do not treat others as who they are. If you did, you would experience heaven on earth. You would be Home with God <em>everywhere. <\/em>And <em>always<\/em>.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>NEALE: Is there any way that people will ever, <em>can ever<\/em>, \u201cget\u201d that?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">GOD: Conversations such as this are one way. Do not keep this conversation to yourself. Make sure it gets into as many hands as possible. Share it with the world.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">========================================<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>Editor&#8217;s Note: If you would like to COMMENT on the above excerpt, please scroll down to the end of the blue, ancillary copy that appears just below, which has been placed here for First Time Readers&#8230;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">If <em>Conversations with God<\/em> has touched your life in a positive way, you are one of millions of people around the world who have had such an experience. All of the readers of CWG have yearned to find a way to keep its healing messages alive in their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">One of the best ways to do that is to read and re-read the material over and over again &#8212; and we have made it convenient and easy for you to do so. Come here often and enjoy selected excerpts from the <em>Conversations with God<\/em> cosmology, changed on a regular basis, so you can &#8220;dip in&#8221; to the 3,000 pages of material quickly and easily. We hope you have enjoyed the excerpt above, from <em><strong>HOME WITH GOD in a Life That Never Ends.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Now, may we tell you about a very easy way that you can share these wonderful messages with others? Please keep reading&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">=====================<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">About <strong>Book-On-A-Bench\u2026<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">If you believe that the messages in <em>Conversations with God <\/em>could inspire humanity to change its basic beliefs about God, about Life, and about Human Beings and their relationship to each other, <em>leave those messages lying around.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Simply \u201cforget\u201d or \u201cmisplace\u201d a copy of <em>Conversations with God<\/em> on a bench somewhere. At a bus stop, or a train station, or an airport\u2014or actually <em>on<\/em> the bus, train, or plane. At a hairstyling salon, a doctor\u2019s office, a chiropractor\u2019s office, a park bench, or even just a bench on the street. Just <em>leave a book lying around. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">If everybody did this, the message of Conversations with God could \u201cgo viral\u201d in a very short period of time.\u00a0 So you are invited to participate in the <strong>Book-On-A-Bench<\/strong> program and spread ideas that could create a new cultural story far and wide.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">= = = = = = = = = = = = = = = =<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>ABOUT the author of <em>Conversations with God<\/em><\/strong>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Neale Donald Walsch is a modern day spiritual messenger whose words continue to touch the world in profound ways. With an early interest in religion and a deeply felt connection to spirituality, Neale spent the majority of his life thriving professionally, yet searching for spiritual meaning before experiencing his now famous conversation with God. His <em>Conversations with God <\/em>series of books has been translated into 37 languages, touching millions and inspiring important changes in their day-to-day lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Neale was born in Milwaukee to a Roman Catholic family that encouraged his quest for spiritual truth. Serving as his first spiritual mentor, Neale\u2019s mother taught him not to be afraid of God, as she believed in having a personal relationship with the divine \u2014 and she taught Neale to do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">A nontraditional believer, Neale\u2019s mother hardly ever went to church, and when he asked her why, she told Neale: \u201cI don\u2019t have to go to church \u2014 God comes to me. He\u2019s with me and around me wherever I am.\u201d This notion of God at an early age would later move Neale to transcend traditional views of organized religion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">By his late teens Neale&#8217;s involvement with spiritually-based teachings led him to begin dipping into a variety of spiritual texts, including the Bible, the Rig Veda, the Upanishads and Divine revelation according to Sri Ramakrishna. He noticed that when people became involved in organized religion they sometimes seemed less joyful and more angry, occasionally exhibiting behaviors of prejudice and separateness. Neale concluded that humanity\u2019s collective experience of theology was not as positive as it was meant to be. It seemed to him that there was something missing in standard theological teachings; that they might contain very good lessons, he concluded, but that they might not be <em>complete.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">After graduating from high school, he enrolled at the University of Wisconsin at Milwaukee, but academic life could not hold his interest and he dropped out of college after two years to follow an interest in radio broadcasting that eventually led to a full-time position at the age of 19 at a small radio station far from his Milwaukee home, in Annapolis, Maryland.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Restless by nature and always seeking to expand his opportunities for self-expression, Neale in the years that followed became a radio station program director, a newspaper managing editor, public information officer for one of the nation&#8217;s largest public school systems, and, after moving to the West Coast, creator and owner of his own public relations and marketing firm. Moving from one career field to another, he could not seem to find occupational satisfaction, his relationship life was in constant turmoil, and his health was going rapidly downhill.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">He had relocated in Oregon as part of a change-of-scenery strategy to find his way, but Fate was to provide more than a change of location. It produced a change in his entire life. One day a car driven by an elderly gentleman made a left turn directly into his path. Neale emerged from the auto accident with a broken neck. He was lucky to escape with his life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Over a year of rehab threw him out of work. A failed marriage had already removed him from his home, and soon he couldn&#8217;t keep even the small apartment he&#8217;d rented. Within months he found himself on the street, homeless. It took him two weeks shy of a year to pull himself together and get back under shelter. He found a modest part-time job, once again in broadcasting, then worked his way into full time broadcasting, eventual landing a spot as a nationally syndicated radio talk show host.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">He had seen the bottom of life living outside, gathering beer and soft drink cans in a park to collect the return deposit, but now his life seemed to be on the mend. Yet, once more, Neale felt an emptiness inside that he could not define, and the daily difficulties that everyone faces continued.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">In 1992, following a period of deep despair, Neale awoke in the middle of a February night and wrote an anguished letter to God. &#8220;What does it take to make life work?\u201d he angrily scratched across a yellow legal pad. &#8220;And what have I done to deserve a life of such continuing struggle?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">What followed has been well chronicled and widely discussed around the world. Neale says his questioning letter received a Divine answer. He tells us that he heard a voice just over his right shoulder\u2014soft and warm, kind and loving, as he describes it\u2014that offered a reply. Awestruck and inspired, he quickly scribbled the response onto a yellow legal pad he\u2019d found on a coffee table before him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">More questions came, and as fast as they occurred to him, answers were given in the same gentle voice, which now seemed to have moved inside his head, but also seemed clearly beyond his normal thinking. Before he knew it, Neale found himself engaged in a two-way on-paper dialogue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">He continued this first &#8220;conversation&#8221; for hours, and had many more in the weeks that followed, always awakening in the middle of the night and being drawn back to his legal pad. Neale&#8217;s handwritten notes would later become the best-selling <em>Conversations with God <\/em>books. He says the process was &#8220;exactly like taking dictation,&#8221; and that the dialogue that was created in this way was published without alteration or editing. He also says that God is talking to all of us, all the time, and that he has come to understand that this experience is not unusual, nor does it make him in any way a special person or a unique messenger.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">In addition to producing the <em>With God<\/em> series of books, Neale has published 18 other works, as well as many video and audio programs. Available throughout the world, seven of the <em>Conversations with God<\/em> books made the <em>New York Times<\/em> bestseller list, with <em>Conversations with God: Book 1<\/em> occupying a place on that list for more than two-and-half years. Walsch\u2019s books have sold more than 7.5 million copies worldwide and have been translated into 37 languages. Anecdotal evidence suggests that <em>CWG <\/em>is one of the most widely distributed hand-to-hand books ever published, with estimates that, on average, at least two people have read every copy purchased &#8212; meaning that something more than 15 million people worldwide have read the CWG messages.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The <em>With God <\/em>series has redefined God and shifted spiritual paradigms around the globe. In order to deal with the enormous response to his writings, Neale has created several global outreach projects dedicated to inspiring the world to help itself move from violence to peace, from confusion to clarity, and from anger to love revolving around their core messages.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The projects include: (1) the Conversations with God Foundation, an adult education outreach; (2) Humanity\u2019s Team, a global spiritual activist outreach; (3) CWG for Parents, an outreach providing resources to those who wish to bring their children the messages of CWG; (4) the Changing Change Network, a CWG helping outreach to persons facing major life challenges; (5) The Global Conversation, an internet newspaper outreach relating the spiritual messages of CWG to the news of the day; and (6) CWG Connect, a multi-media communications outreach creating a worldwide CWG community featuring Video and Audio On-Demand services, together with ongoing personal interaction with the author of CWG. Access to all of these programs will be found at the gateway internet site:<a href=\"http:\/\/cwgportal.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> www.CWGPortal.com<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Neale\u2019s work has taken him from the steps of Machu Picchu in Peru to the steps of the Shinto shrines of Japan, from Red Square in Moscow to St. Peter\u2019s Square in Vatican City to Tiananmen Square in Beijing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Everywhere he has gone\u2014from South Africa to Norway, Croatia to The Netherlands, the streets of Zurich to the streets of Seoul\u2014Neale has found a hunger among the people to find a new way to live; a way to co-exist, at last, in peace and harmony, with a reverence for Life Itself in all its forms, and for each other. And he has sought to help them develop a new, expanded understanding of God, of life, and of themselves that allows them to create and experience this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Neale&#8217;s latest book, <em>The Only Thing That Matters<\/em>, was published in October, 2012. He lives in Ashland, Oregon and is married to the American poet Em Claire (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.emclairepoet.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">www.emclairepoet.com<\/span><\/a>).<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NEALE: This idea of using death as a tool is brand new to me. A tool is something that one uses on purpose, it seems to me. It\u2019s something that one wants to use. But I don\u2019t want to die. Nobody wants to die. GOD: Everybody wants to die. NEALE: Everybody wants to die? 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