For most of the addicted community, the disease has been brought on by the conscious decision to use substances that are likely to cause dependence.\u00a0 Typically, drug and alcohol use begins in response to trauma, peer pressure, stress, or overall lack of concern for the outcome. \u00a0\u00a0Nobody ever picked up a drink or a drug thinking that someday they may be so hopelessly addicted they would lie, cheat, steal, rape, assault, even murder under the influence.\u00a0 \u201cIt won\u2019t happen to me\u201d is the usual thinking.<\/p>\n
It is my belief that the genetic aspect of addiction should be taught to everyone at an early age.\u00a0 This would enable everyone to fully understand the nature of their choice to drink or do drugs and what the consequences of that choice may render. \u00a0I understand that testing would be too costly and not a very good use of anyone\u2019s money.\u00a0 For most, simple observation of their family tree would let them know if they stand a good chance of being predisposed to the possibility of addiction.<\/p>\n
But this article is going to target a different segment of the addicted population.\u00a0 There are many people who have unknowingly, unintentionally, even unwillingly become addicted to prescription drugs.\u00a0 This may have started from something as simple as a slip-and-fall injury, a car accident, or some other type of pain-causing trauma.\u00a0 Innocently enough, they went to their doctor and discussed the pain and what could be done about it.\u00a0 Most doctors (not all) are pretty quick to prescribe narcotic pain medication to their patients.<\/p>\n
It has been my own personal experience that doctors freely prescribe dangerous narcotics for routine procedures and surgeries.\u00a0 I have personally been given a prescription for narcotics after having my wisdom teeth removed.\u00a0 It was my experience that a few Advil took care of any pain I had.\u00a0 Just recently I had hip surgery and was prescribed Oxycodone even though I told the doctor there was no chance I would ever take it.\u00a0 My experience post-surgery was that I did not even need an aspirin!<\/p>\n
Here is something shocking, and I do hope there is a medical doctor reading this that is willing to vouch for the validity of what I am about to tell you.\u00a0 Most medical doctors only receive a few hours of training on addiction in their entire school career!\u00a0 I do wonder how things would change if they realized that the drugs they are prescribing could possible send their patients spiraling out of control?<\/p>\n
The sad truth is that too many people believe that addiction is not a disease (doctors included) and that addiction is just a moral deficiency.\u00a0 Most people who do not have trouble controlling the prescriptions they take and the alcohol they drink are not willing to believe that other people cannot do the same.\u00a0 These so-called \u201cnormal people,\u201d the ones who drink one beer and call it a night, or take one tablet of Vicodin every 4 \u2013 6 hours as needed, they are the ones who can be most beneficial in assisting the addicted people into treatment. They are the ones with the clear mind to think with.<\/p>\n
People under the influence of narcotics, suffering with addiction, do not have good judgment.\u00a0 Denial is a key indicator for addiction.\u00a0 Believe it or not, the addict has tricked themself into believing that they somehow need to double, triple, quadruple the dosage of the Vicodin because their pain is \u201cworse\u201d than most people’s, and seeing as their doctor \u201ccan\u2019t see that,\u201d they end up going to multiple doctors.\u00a0 Once all of the doctors figure out what they are doing and put an end to it, the addict \u201cwho knows better than the professional\u201d seeks out the black market or a drug dealer for the drugs.<\/p>\n
These people I am writing about here are doctors, lawyers, nurses, police, firemen, postal workers, moms and dads, grandmas and grandpas, sisters and brothers, priests and nuns, rabbis and Imams.\u00a0 Addiction crosses all lines and cultural boundaries. Those who know these people and see their behavior can do them the biggest favor ever and simply recognize it with them.\u00a0\u00a0 These are typically family members that know what is going on yet are afraid to do anything about it.<\/p>\n
Let me ask you this: \u00a0If you won\u2019t say something to the addicted, who will?\u00a0 Can you come from a deep place of love and compassion without judgment and condemnation?\u00a0 Can you set aside your own lack of understanding about the disease of addiction and just extend a hand to a drowning person?<\/p>\n
For an addict to ask for help, many factors must fall into place, and none of them are pleasant. \u00a0It is called “hitting the bottom” for a reason; those who reach out for help are at a place where they never thought they would go. \u00a0Sometimes that window of opportunity is only open for a very short time.\u00a0 It generally takes deep legal troubles, relationship woes, financial ruin, homelessness, or a major health crisis related to usage for the addict to admit they have a problem.<\/p>\n
Enabling by family members only ensures a much deeper and possibly tragic bottom for the addict.<\/p>\n
The good news here is this: \u00a0Those who become \u201caccidentally addicted\u201d have a much greater success rate in recovery than do the people who knowingly take illegal drugs for what some would call recreational usage.<\/p>\n
The spiritual recovery program is perfectly suited for these people.\u00a0 They are usually not able to relate to the hardcore drug addicts found in the Twelve Step programs, although some do just fine there.\u00a0 What they need to do is to overhaul their own belief system and become aware of the power they hold over their own lives. \u00a0Taking on an approach to life that embraces fellowship, personal integrity, and openness is a vital key to sustained sobriety as well as increasing the quality of life.<\/p>\n
Most people will agree that relapse is less likely to occur in the life of a happy, outgoing person.\u00a0 For those seeking to improve their conscious contact with a Higher Power, happiness is a natural byproduct.\u00a0 Using a support group in the pursuit of spiritual living encourages a sense of belonging and family that all humans desire. Seeking support from coaches and counselors is also highly recommended in the early stages of recovery.<\/p>\n
(Kevin McCormack is a Conversations with God Life Coach, a Spiritual helper on <\/em>www.changingchange.net<\/span><\/a><\/span>, and an Addictions recovery advisor.\u00a0 You can visit his website for more information at www.Kevin-Spiritualmentor.com<\/span><\/a>\u00a0 To connect with Kevin, please email him at<\/em>\u00a0<\/em>Kevin@theglobalconversation.com<\/em><\/span>)<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" For most of the addicted community, the disease has been brought on by the conscious decision to use substances that are likely to cause dependence.\u00a0 Typically, drug and alcohol use begins in response to trauma, peer pressure, stress, or overall lack of concern for the outcome. \u00a0\u00a0Nobody ever picked up a drink or a drug […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[159],"tags":[185,195,889,888,887],"class_list":["post-3822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction-and-recovery","tag-addiction","tag-kevin-mccormack","tag-prescription-abuse","tag-prescription-pain-medication","tag-spiritual-recovery-program"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3822","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3822"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3822\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3833,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3822\/revisions\/3833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3822"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3822"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3822"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}