\u201cLife is a process of creation, and you keep living it as if it were a process of re-enactment\u201d \u00a0– <\/i>(Conversations with God – Book 2<\/em>)<\/p>\n As a parent, it is important to live life moment to moment, experiencing the journey that you have created with this new life, your child! However, most of us re-enact what we experienced as children, not the other way around. We re-enact parenting behaviors rather than create new parenting skills. \u00a0Spiritual parenting is a new concept.\u00a0 It is a different approach to the traditional authoritarian style of parenting that society has handed down generation after generation, one which involves a new<\/i> way of seeing your child and a new<\/i> way to experience each other\u2019s humanness.<\/p>\n I am writing this article because I have noticed so many parents parenting from the past, rather than from a natural progression of their life experiences. \u00a0Most children are intuitive and have natural human senses.\u00a0 But it is often the case that parents do not allow their children to manifest their\u00a0own thoughts and ideas.\u00a0 Instead, many parents dictate to children their own ideas about what they think life should be like or look like. Sometimes it is okay to follow their lead, allowing them to direct us in creating their futures. This will give us, the parent, more tools to work with as we move toward a new way of parenting. By listening to our children, we gain a new, creative way of parenting rather than re-enacting our own past experiences.<\/p>\n I realize that this little tad bit of information might seem confusing at first, but it is quite simple actually. I am suggesting that you step out of your mind…out of your past…and look into the future through the eyes of your child…into forever.<\/p>\n What does your \u201cforever\u201d look like? \u201cForever\u201d for you may mean until the end of this physical life.\u00a0 To some, it could mean through many lifetimes for all eternity.\u00a0To me, forever is a continued source of energy, one that exists in both the spiritual realm and the physical realm.\u00a0 It is a never-ending story, a continuation of your Soul\u2019s creation, not a re-enactment from the beginning of this physical life\u2026unless it is.\u00a0My\u00a0forever\u00a0often doesn’t look anything like I think it\u00a0should because I am\u00a0constantly creating it.\u00a0 I am creating that which has been given to me, through me, and releasing the re-enactment of what I\u00a0think<\/i>\u00a0was given to me.<\/p>\n I was given a wonderful example of this from a very good friend who\u00a0longed to raise her son\u00a0in a small town, because that is how she grew up, until one day\u00a0she realized that\u00a0her past is not the place to draw upon in an effort to create a life for her son.\u00a0 Rather, it was an attempt to simply relive what was meaningful and memorable to her. Creating a new direction with\u00a0her son was a better path for both of them, and way more fun than simply doing over\u00a0her own life.<\/p>\n By not re-enacting your childhood,\u00a0what your parents created for you, you are embarking on a life experience that will fill you and your child\/ren with new ideas, new hope, and keep your parenting “life spark” alive inside of you. Now, I hope you understand that this is merely my idea of a creative forever.\u00a0 There are no rules, no restrictions, just life unfolding. Will you allow\u00a0a new unfolding to occur in your family?<\/p>\n My realization as a parent:\u00a0My child and I can Co-Create the forever that we wish it to be.<\/i><\/p>\n (Laurie Lankins Farley has worked with Neale Donald Walsch for approximately 10 years. She is the Executive Director of his non-profit The School of the New Spirituality and creative co-director of CwGforParents.com. Laurie has published an inspirational children’s book “The Positive Little Soul.”\u00a0 She can be contacted at Parenting@TheGlobalConversation.com<\/span><\/a><\/span>.)<\/i><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cLife is a process of creation, and you keep living it as if it were a process of re-enactment\u201d \u00a0– (Conversations with God – Book 2) As a parent, it is important to live life moment to moment, experiencing the journey that you have created with this new life, your child! 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