{"id":5995,"date":"2013-07-11T02:19:04","date_gmt":"2013-07-11T06:19:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=5995"},"modified":"2013-07-11T02:19:04","modified_gmt":"2013-07-11T06:19:04","slug":"relationship-status-its-complicated-series-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=5995","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Status: It\u2019s Complicated (Series Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Part 2: Simply Together<\/span><\/p>\n

In the past months, we have focused an immense amount of energy and attention onto the evolution and growth of the conscious self. But as we have been growing in the \u2018inside world\u2019, we also begin to emerge into the \u2018outside world\u2019. Filled with the intricate and elaborate webs of connections, networks, and relationships, understanding the myriad topics of the \u2018outside world\u2019 is its own colossal challenge. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the \u2018outside world\u2019, the concept of \u2018being together\u2019 continues to be one its most intriguing topics. And, from anybody who first enters a dating relationship, \u2018being together\u2019 is a wonderful feeling. And it is little surprise why. <\/span><\/p>\n

Simply stated, \u2018being together\u2019 means \u2018being <\/i>together\u2019. In the triage of our states of being \u2013 Be, Do, Have \u2013 being is the highest expression. And when it is with the <\/span>presence<\/i> of another, the feeling only gets exponentiated. <\/span>Presence, <\/i>both in time and location, is truly crucial for living in the depth and beauty of the Now. being present together can enhance not only the status of the relationship, but also the individual self. On the level of the mind, the body, and the spirit, the self is enhanced by the extra presence in the following ways: <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

-On the most basic level, the body\u2019s physical reactions to another significant presence create an entirely different reaction. Sometimes by the mere presence of another in a stable relationship can cause the body to relax and to release its stressful buildups. By being<\/i> in the <\/span>state of being<\/i>, physical wellness can be experienced in all seven chakras. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

-On the level of the mind, the psychology of being together is also very transformative. In the association of another, the ego\u2019s self-centeredness loses its grasp. Knowing that there is more than just the single mind, the ego\u2019s self-importance diminishes, as it becomes less and less about the self, and more and more about sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

-On the deeper spiritual level, this is the highest state you can be with another. It means fully enjoying the presence <\/i>of another at the highest level possible. When being conscious of another presence, the energy linking thoughts and feelings meld into unity. Being aware is truly the core of wellness and oneness, and being aware together, can only accelerate that process. <\/span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

As the state of being <\/i>together can be extremely fulfilling, the states of <\/span>having <\/i>together and <\/span>doing <\/i>together can be a little <\/span>less <\/i>enjoyable. Having a relationship means that the relationship itself must be constantly maintained to keep the relationship alive. By fixating on the material means of a relationship (such that it is something to have), it becomes less and less about enjoying the other person\u2019s presence and more and more about the angst, bitterness, and jealously that normally fills a soap opera drama. Furthermore, doing things in a relationship can also be just as unfulfilling, as the couple is relying on external events, such as movies, concerts, and expensive meals, to provide their sense of happiness with each other. Though it is a great to go out to events and do things in your relationship, it can possibly also lead to emptiness when doing those things becomes overdone or overrated. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Being present together, absorbing and emitting a shared energy, is one of the most creative forces of the universe. Living in the sense of unity, peace, and oneness, from beyond the individual and towards the collective, is root of change on the external plane. When we bring the same \u2018beingness\u2019 in ALL of our relationships (not just dating relationships), we bring that same creative energy into every interaction and connection we have. So, understanding, experiencing, and knowing beingness, <\/i>from the shared presence to the collective presence, is what relationships ARE truly about. So just be in a relationship. Nothing more, nothing less. That\u2019s all you need. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

(Lauren is a Feature Editor of The Global Conversation. She lives in Wood Dale, IL, and can be reached at <\/i>Lauren@TheGlobalConversation.com<\/span><\/i><\/b><\/span><\/a>) <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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