{"id":6699,"date":"2013-09-30T20:53:51","date_gmt":"2013-10-01T00:53:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=6699"},"modified":"2013-09-30T20:59:42","modified_gmt":"2013-10-01T00:59:42","slug":"perfectly-imperfect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theglobalconversation.com\/blog\/?p=6699","title":{"rendered":"Perfectly imperfect"},"content":{"rendered":"

If there was one word in our language that I wish we could eliminate, or at least redefine, it would be the word \u201cperfect.\u201d\u00a0 Actually, not the word itself, but rather the idea that we are somehow inherently less than<\/em> or in need of being improved upon<\/em>, \u00a0and that the only way to experience a life of happiness, joy, and freedom is to be, do, or have something different than we are already being, doing, or having.<\/p>\n

The irony is that in our quest for perfection, as we have largely come to understand it, we are blocking our own ability to see ourselves as who and what we truly are, which is \u2013 ironically<\/em> — perfect. \u00a0The expectation bar has been set mighty high by many of us.\u00a0 And buried deep beneath its many complicated layers of judgment and insufficiency lies the opportunity for each and every one of us to experience our natural state of wholeness and completeness.<\/p>\n

For many, life has become a distorted sort of treasure hunt, a mission, a goal-oriented conditional experience:<\/p>\n

If only I had more money, then I would be able to buy the big house on the hill and have designer clothes and even that bright red sports car…because that would bring me happiness.<\/p>\n

If only I had thinner thighs or larger breasts, then I would attract a partner who would desire me and finally have the relationship of my dreams…because that would bring me love.<\/p>\n

If only my house was always clean and organized, then I could finally relax and read those books which are collecting dust on my bookshelf or have the time to take that yoga class…because that would bring me peace.<\/p>\n

If only I had a better job, then I would make more money so I would be able to buy the big house on the hill and have the designer clothes and even that bright red sports car…<\/p>\n

If I had all these things, finally my life would be perfect.<\/p>\n

And the cycle is perpetuated – want, strive, push, want, strive, push, want, strive, push – which still does not produce the outcome we think we are supposed to have, which causes us to push harder and strive more, leaving us utterly exhausted and mentally drained and completely detached from any notion or concept about who we really are.<\/p>\n

Does a state of \u201cperfection\u201d exist?<\/p>\n

What would it actually look like if it did?<\/p>\n

Why do we yearn to be more? \u00a0To be better? \u00a0 And why are we willing to trade in our happiness in exchange for a concept that demonstrates itself over and over and over again to be unrealized?<\/p>\n

Is \u201cperfection\u201d something that we are capable of experiencing beyond perhaps the exact moment we are born into this world?\u00a0\u00a0 There are some who would say even a newborn baby is not perfect, that they, too, come into this world flawed, in need of fixing or improving upon, to the degree that they are actually in need of forgiveness.\u00a0 Is that conceivable or even possible?<\/p>\n

I sense that there is some level of perfection woven into the universal tapestry within which we find ourselves a part of, some purposeful fluidity that encompasses each and every one of us, even though the collective cognitive grasp of what that might be seems to lies just beyond the boundaries of our understanding.\u00a0 But I also believe that we are provided momentary glimpses into this realm of deeper understanding, demonstrated by numerous occurrences in my own life where an experience of overwhelming sensation of goodness and joy fills me and reminds me that there is a harmonious energy at play here in the seemingly random happenings in my life.<\/p>\n

So today I will celebrate my imperfections, I will laugh at the choices that feel like mistakes, and I will be grateful for all the \u201cwrong\u201d turns I make and awkward or embarrassing things I might say.\u00a0 I will stop wishing I was that<\/i> and feel appreciative because I am this<\/i>. \u00a0I will open my heart to extend the same appreciation and kindness to all those who share this life journey with me, knowing that these are the moments that I believe are best described as, well, perfect. <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cIf a snowflake is utterly perfect in its design, do you not think the same could be said about something as magnificent as your life?\u201d
\n~ “Conversations with God”\u00a0<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

(Lisa McCormack is the Managing Editor & Administrator of The Global Conversation. She is also a member of the Spiritual Helper team at www.ChangingChange.net, a website offering emotional and spiritual support. To connect with Lisa, please e-mail her at\u00a0<\/em>Lisa@TheGlobalConversation.com<\/a><\/em>.)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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